Se scrie \u00ab50 de ani\u00bb sau \u00ab50 ani\u00bb? \u0218i cum e corect: \u00aba 50-a aniversare\u00bb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\u00abDe\u00bb e obligatoriu de la dou\u0103zeci \u00een sus: \u00ab50 de ani\u00bb, \u00ab40 de ani\u00bb, \u00ab100 de ani\u00bb \u2014 dar \u00abtrei ani\u00bb, \u00abnou\u0103 ani\u00bb, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00abde\u00bb. Regula \u021bine de numeral, nu de v\u00e2rst\u0103, \u0219i se aplic\u0103 la fel oriunde: \u00ab20 de minute\u00bb, \u00eens\u0103 \u00abcinci minute\u00bb. Ordinalul se scrie cu cratim\u0103 \u0219i cu articol: \u00aba 50-a aniversare\u00bb, \u00abal 60-lea an\u00bb. \u00cen mesaje, forma cea mai fireasc\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne totu\u0219i cea simpl\u0103 \u2014 \u00abLa mul\u021bi ani la 50 de ani\u00bb sau, dac\u0103 \u021bi se pare greoi, \u00abLa 50 de ani \u00ee\u021bi doresc\u2026\u00bb. Gre\u0219eala care se vede cel mai des pe felicit\u0103ri e tocmai \u00ab50 ani\u00bb, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00abde\u00bb, \u0219i sare \u00een ochi exact la oamenii care vor citi textul de dou\u0103 ori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La petrecere se d\u0103 un plic \u0219i se scrie ceva pe el. Ce \u00eencape \u00een dou\u0103 r\u00e2nduri?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nPe plic nu se scrie o urare complet\u0103, ci o formul\u0103 scurt\u0103 plus numele celor care semneaz\u0103 \u2014 restul se spune la mas\u0103. Practic: un r\u00e2nd cu urarea, un r\u00e2nd cu semn\u0103tura. \u00abLa mul\u021bi ani la 60 de ani, cu drag\u00bb e suficient \u0219i nu oblig\u0103 pe nimeni s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 \u00een picioare, \u00een g\u0103l\u0103gie. Ce nu merge acolo: glumele care au nevoie de context \u0219i textele lungi, care se citesc oricum a doua zi, dac\u0103 se mai citesc. Dac\u0103 ai ceva de spus cu adev\u0103rat, scrie separat, pe o felicitare mic\u0103 pus\u0103 \u00een acela\u0219i plic \u2014 aceea se p\u0103streaz\u0103. \u0218i verific\u0103 numele: se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 des ca plicurile s\u0103 fie deschise toate odat\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu se mai \u0219tie de la cine e care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aniversarea cade \u00een post \u0219i o parte din familie \u021bine post. Cum scriu \u0219i ce nu propun?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nTextul r\u0103m\u00e2ne acela\u0219i \u2014 nu postul e problema, ci ce propui \u00een el. Evit\u0103 ur\u0103rile construite pe mas\u0103, pe friptur\u0103, pe pahare pline: nu jignesc pe nimeni, dar sun\u0103 a invita\u021bie la ceva la care omul nu poate participa. Merge orice urare despre s\u0103n\u0103tate, timp, lini\u0219te, drumuri. Dac\u0103 scrii pentru o petrecere care se \u021bine totu\u0219i, e bine ca mesajul s\u0103 insiste pe om, nu pe petrecere. Iar dac\u0103 familia am\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103toarea p\u00e2n\u0103 trece postul, ziua propriu-zis\u0103 tot se felicit\u0103 la timp: urarea se trimite pe data real\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 masa vine mai t\u00e2rziu. Un r\u00e2nd \u00een plus l\u0103mure\u0219te totul: \u00abS\u0103rb\u0103torim c\u00e2nd e vremea, dar azi te felicit oricum\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu pot ajunge la petrecerea de 50 de ani. Cum scriu ca mesajul s\u0103 nu sune a scuz\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nOrdinea rezolv\u0103 aproape tot. \u00cencepe cu urarea, nu cu motivul: dac\u0103 primul r\u00e2nd explic\u0103 de ce lipse\u0219ti, tot textul devine o justificare \u0219i a\u0219a e \u0219i citit. Motivul se spune la final, \u00eentr-o singur\u0103 propozi\u021bie \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 detalii \u2014 detaliile sun\u0103 a pledoarie. Ce ajut\u0103 mult e o dat\u0103 concret\u0103 \u00een locul lui \u00abne vedem noi c\u00e2ndva\u00bb: o zi anume, o mas\u0103 anume, ceva ce se poate pune \u00een calendar. Iar dac\u0103 la petrecere se citesc mesajele cu voce tare, scrie un text care suport\u0103 asta, f\u0103r\u0103 lucruri numai de-ale voastre. Cifra se nume\u0219te o dat\u0103, ca peste tot: \u00abLa 50 de ani \u00ee\u021bi doresc\u2026\u00bb. A\u0219a mesajul st\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 celelalte, nu \u00een afara serii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00abLa mul\u021bi ani\u00bb \u00eenseamn\u0103 literal \u00abmul\u021bi ani\u00bb. La 70 sau la 80 nu sun\u0103 ca o ironie f\u0103r\u0103 voie?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nNu, pentru c\u0103 formula s-a fixat de mult ca expresie: nimeni nu o mai desface \u00een cuvinte, exact cum nimeni nu se g\u00e2nde\u0219te la m\u00e2ncare c\u00e2nd spune \u00abpoftim\u00bb. Se folose\u0219te la orice v\u00e2rst\u0103, inclusiv la cele mari, \u0219i e urarea a\u0219teptat\u0103. Ce reactiveaz\u0103 sensul literal \u2014 \u0219i acolo chiar apare st\u00e2ng\u0103cia \u2014 sunt amplific\u0103rile: \u00abs\u0103 prinzi \u0219i nepo\u021bii mari\u00bb, \u00ab\u00eenc\u0103 pe at\u00e2\u021bia\u00bb, \u00abs\u0103 te \u021binem \u0219i la centenar\u00bb. Ele mut\u0103 aten\u021bia pe c\u00e2t timp a mai r\u0103mas, adic\u0103 pe singurul lucru pe care nimeni nu vrea s\u0103-l aud\u0103 azi. Sigur func\u021bioneaz\u0103 ur\u0103rile despre anul care vine, nu despre num\u0103rul de ani: s\u0103n\u0103tate, lini\u0219te, o var\u0103 bun\u0103, oameni \u00een jur. Cifra rotund\u0103 se nume\u0219te o dat\u0103, la \u00eenceput, \u0219i dup\u0103 aceea se vorbe\u0219te despre om.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Cifrele rotunde se s\u0103rb\u0103toresc altfel \u0219i, mai ales, se felicit\u0103 altfel. La 30 de ani gluma poate merge aproape oriunde; la 70 de ani exact aceea\u0219i glum\u0103 cade prost. \u00centre ele sunt patru decenii \u00een care se schimb\u0103 \u0219i ce e amuzant, \u0219i ce sun\u0103 a lips\u0103 de respect, iar textul trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tie pe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":588,"featured_media":4876,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1906],"tags":[],"moimportance":[],"motype":[],"moformat":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4875","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-felicitari"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4875","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/588"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4875"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4875\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4879,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4875\/revisions\/4879"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4876"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4875"},{"taxonomy":"moimportance","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/moimportance?post=4875"},{"taxonomy":"motype","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/motype?post=4875"},{"taxonomy":"moformat","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bucharest.name\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/moformat?post=4875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}